Audio From The “New” Conquerors Club

Posted by Tony Haygood on April 27, 2013 in audio

Great News!  You can now listen to, or download the audio from the Conqueror’s Club meetings.  Praise the Lord!

Just follow this link:  http://www.calvarycathedral.org/archives/30

Not Me, But We!

Posted by Tony Haygood on April 26, 2013 in Conqueror's Club Messages

Philippians 2:1-4 

If therefore there is any encouragement in Christ, if there is any consolation of love, if there is any fellowship of the Spirit, if any affection and compassion, 

make my joy complete by being of the same mind, maintaining the same love, united in spirit, intent on one purpose. 

Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind let each of you regard one another as more important than himself; 

do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others.

 

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor. 

For if either of them falls, the one will lift up his companion. But woe to the one who falls when there is not another to lift him up.  

Furthermore, if two lie down together they keep warm, but how can one be warm alone?  

And if one can overpower him who is alone, two can resist him. A cord of three strands is not quickly torn apart.

Not Me, But We!

  • “We” means that you are not in this alone!
  • We think of marriage as two coming together, and it is, but it’s also more than that.  A Godly marriage is actually “three.”
  • So your marriage has the potential of having the Lord’s help, right in the middle of everything that might be going on!  He’s the one that makes the big difference!

Ecclesiastes 4:12  (NASB)

A cord of three strands is not quickly torn apart.

Ecclesiastes 4:12  (KJV) 

A threefold cord is not quickly broken.

 

Rope is made up of three strands.  Each strand has many individual fibers.  The strands are then woven, mingled, braided together to form a strong cord.  They are all woven in the same direction!  If not, it quickly comes unraveled and frayed.  If one strand is lost, the cord is much weaker, and will eventually snap under the load.  All three strands are needed to “friction” together, or hold on to each other.  The three strands tend to “rely” on each other to hold the weight.

A good cord, when kept clean of dirt and debris, is always ready for use, and can withstand tremendous, instant pressure.  It can actually flex under the weight and absorb the weight and bounce back.   Rope that is not cleaned or cared for with be too abrasive and cause small fractures in the individual strands, and break under pressure.

If the husband clings to God, and the wife clings to God; since there is only one God, they will all end up together.

Once the three strands are together, braided and working, it is important to remember that cord is made for a purpose!  You have a purpose.  Wonderful, strong rope that is just coiled up and laying there, is not serving it’s purpose.  What is your purpose?  You need to find this out from God.  Of course there are general, global purposes like winning the lost, reading the Bible, prayer, and so on, but I mean find out what your specific purpose is . . . family, influence, service, etc.

 

Ephesians 4:1 – 3

I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, entreat you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling with which you have been called, 

with all humility and gentleness, with patience, showing forbearance to one another in love, 

being diligent to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. 

 

It’s a lot easier to declare peace than it is to achieve peace!  As soon as marriage begins, the enemy will try to bring conflict, and conflict can, if unchecked, destroy the peace of any relationship.  It takes work on the part of both husband and wife to keep peace reigning in their marriage.  It is human nature for two human beings spending a long time together in close proximity together to face conflicts.  You tend to have different goals, interests, tastes, likes and dislikes.  So, according to Ephesians 4, unity of the Spirit can only be preserved when the bond of peace is established and maintained.  Peace has to be achieved first, maintained second, and walked out daily from there.  We have to learn that the fruit of the Spirit promotes peace!

If you want to keep getting the same results, then just keep doing the same thing!  But, if you want better results, then you are going to have to do something differently!  It’s time for you to break out!  Lay your pride aside, and follow the Words of Jesus!

The phrase “Not Me” appears only 8 times in the Bible

But, the phrase “But We” appears 53 times in the Bible!  Things like:

But We . . . .

. . . will serve the Lord

. . . will bless the Lord

. . . believe

. . . also joy in God

. . . speak the wisdom of God

. . . have the mind of Christ

. . . shall all be changed

. . . are made manifest unto God

. . . are bound to give thanks

ALSO

. . . will remember the Name of the Lord

. . . will give ourselves continually to prayer, and the Word

. . . preach Christ crucified

. . . have this treasure in earthen vessels

. . . do all things for your edifying

. . . shall live with Him by the power of God

. . . see Jesus

 

We is better than Me!

Mark 10:6-9

But from the beginning of creation, God made them male and female. 

For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother,

and the two shall become one flesh; consequently they are no longer two, but one flesh. 

What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.

 

Let no man “untwist, untangle, unbraid, unravel, unwind, or unthread.”

 

You have a Treasure sitting right next to you!  But, you have to see the treasure as priceless, valuable, and having worth!  Valuable enough to look at, and touch, and spend time with, and influence in a Godly way.   Are you intent on one purpose?  That’s what Philippians was saying.  Do you have humility of mind, or are you only looking out for your own good?

We’ve got to stick together!  You need your partner, and they need you!  Marriage is not a 50/50 deal, it’s 100/100/100!  Like Pastor Nichols says,  “Love is giving your best, with no strings attached, except Faith in the seed you have planted.”

No marriage is impossible with God!  No marriage is too hard for God!    Every marriage will benefit from hearing the Word of God!

 

So, now that I know how much God is on my side, what can I actually do about my marriage?

No matter what the condition of your marriage, the Word of God will help your marriage!

 

1. Set A Positive Goal For Your Marriage – Take The High Road!

Is your goal to have a happy and nurturing relationship.  If your goal is proving yourself right, you may be on the wrong track. Always keep your goal in mind and make sure your actions are aligned with your goal. This may sometimes mean not pointing out how right you are no matter how much evidence you have.

2. Always See The Best In Your Spouse – God Does!

After all, God made them just for you!  That wife of yours is God’s daughter.  That man of yours is God’s son.  Wow!

 

3. Change Begins With Me – And Ends With We!

If you just let go, and let God change you, you will see that His kind of change can be very contagious.

 

4. Watch your words! Words are powerful.  You can:

Compliment or complain, Build-up or backbite, Rejoice or regurgitate, Bless or Bicker, Love or Lie, Edify or Erase, Bring Joy or Bring Jealousy, Minister or Maim, Treasure or Taint, Guide or Gossip, You can be a Vision Builder or a Vision Stealer!

You tongue is like the rudder of a mighty ship.  It determines the direction and path you will go.  If your ship has been going in the wrong direction for a while, it might take some time to turn it around, but it’s worth it!

Speak blessings, not cursing.  Impart Hope!  Never yell at your wife unless your house is on fire.  They are delicate and petite flowers!  Ladies, build your man up and encourage him, chances are he doing more for you than you might even imagine.  Life and death are in the power of the tongue.

 

5. Keep An Eye Out!

You have great influence.  Avoid the very appearance of evil.  Don’t see how close you can get to evil and not get caught, run from it!  Your spouse is watching to see what you do and how you react to certain things.  Always show them that you are under God’s influence and are attempting to do the right thing.  They want to know that you are willing to stay away from anything that is even questionable, and anything that will come between you.

 

6. Walk In Forgiveness! 

At some point, you’ve got to actually forgive your mate, let them know you forgive them, and commit to move forward in your marriage.  Everyone has done stupid stuff, people do blow it.  But even God chose to forgive us while we were still dead in our trespasses and sins.  Choose to love and forgive first.  This may be difficult, but it is necessary.

 

Homework Assignment:

  1. Write down three things about your husband or wife that you really value – things you really appreciate, or for which you really are thankful.  Does he earn money to provide for you and the children?  Is she a good mother and wife?  Are they kind?  Affectionate?
  2. Recognize three ways you have been selfish – ways you know need to change, and determine to focus on God’s Word to change them.
  3. Determine three ways you can put you spouse first.

Excited About Our New Venture

Posted by Tony Haygood on April 19, 2013 in Daily Encouragement

Well, if you have not yet heard, on April 14, 2013, Pastor Nichols introduced Miriam & me as the new leadership for the Conqueror’s Club Ministry here at Calvary Cathedral International.  Miriam and I have been married for just over 24 years now, and we have 7 wonderful children.  We are thankful for God’s blessings!

Conqueror’s Club is a ministry specifically designed to help, encourage, and build lasting and Godly marriages.  God originally gave the vision of Conqueror’s Club to Pastor Nichols in 1992, and it continues to this day.

Needless to say, we are very excited about our new role, and look forward to the opportunity to help many people in the future.  Pastor has also seen fit to introduce a great team of two other couples that will work hand in hand with us in this venture.  We are very glad to serve along side of Susan and Phil Foster, and Jay and Lori West.  This is a great team, all with a heart to really help people!  We have known, and been close friends with these couples for a long, long time.  They are good and Godly people!

There will be great meetings, great times of fellowship, and great times of encouraging and building marriages that go the distance.

We are workers together!

You Are Not In This Alone!

Posted by Tony Haygood on April 12, 2013 in Daily Encouragement

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12  (NASB)

Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor.  For if either of them falls, the one will lift up his companion. But woe to the one who falls when there is not another to lift him up.  Furthermore, if two lie down together they keep warm, but how can one be warm alone?  And if one can overpower him who is alone, two can resist him. A cord of three strands is not quickly torn apart.

Be encouraged that God is looking out for you!  He has great plans for you, your spouse, your children, your friends . . . everyone!  He made the supreme sacrifice for the whole world.  According to 1 Timothy 2:4, Goddesires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth.”  It’s time to make a new commitment to God, and really seek His face.  It’s time to find out from Him, how He wants you to participate in this great end-time harvest.

 

This Is It – It’s Right Now!

Posted by Tony Haygood on April 11, 2013 in Daily Encouragement

This is the move of God that God has given us – it’s right now!  I have read about the Azusa Street revival and the Welch revival and many others, but I don’t live on Azusa Street, I live right now!  It’s one thing to remember the great things that God has already done for us, but it is also important to cooperate with Him right now.  Make sure that you take time to be thankful to God for what He has done, but also make sure you look to Him to find out what He is doing right now.

God continues to have great plans for you and your family.  Make every effort to jump in and actively participate with His plan.

Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.

 

Things Take Time!

Posted by Tony Haygood on April 9, 2013 in Daily Encouragement

I love visiting my Pastor’s house, because it filled with memories of faith, and I always seem to come away uplifted or encouraged by something I see there.  There is a small plaque hanging on his wall between the kitchen and the living room that shows a picture of a long, cascading waterfall crashing upon the smooth boulders below, and the simple caption that reads “Things take time.”  Every time I see that little picture, I realize all over again that God is not in a hurry.  That most of things He does are not rushed at all.  We seem to get things so turned around these days, thinking and really believing that if things don’t work out for me right away, that God is not in it.  We think “Where was God this time?” or “Where was God when I needed Him most?”  The truth is that we are just too hurried.  Reading through the Old Testament, there are countless examples of how God helped great men of God like Abraham, Noah and Daniel overcome incredible obstacles, but things usually did not turn around for them overnight.  So, I encourage you to slow down a little today. Think about the important things in life.

Christ is Simple!

Posted by Tony Haygood on April 6, 2013 in Daily Encouragement

2 Corinthians 11:3

But I fear, lest by any means, as the serpent beguiled Eve through his subtilty, so your minds should be corrupted from the simplicity that is in Christ.

This has to be one of my favorite verses in the Bible!  Paul was saying that if there was anything he didn’t want to happen to those in Corinth, it was that they would somehow be moved away from the simplicity in Christ.  How could it possibly happen?  Through the devil’s subtile, little, small pulls at our minds, to throw us off course.  Just like he beguiled, or deceived Eve, he still makes the same attempts on us today. What this verse also tells us is that the reason Paul didn’t want this to happen, was because remaining in Christ’s simplicity is so powerful and so important.  Friends, don’t listen to the enemy, but recognize the attack, put him down, and keep moving!

Trust In The Lord

Posted by Tony Haygood on April 5, 2013 in Daily Encouragement

Proverbs 3:5 & 6  (NASB)

Trust in the LORD with all your heart, 

And do not lean on your own understanding. 

In all your ways acknowledge Him,

And He will make your paths straight.

Sometimes it’s easier to just concentrate on the first part of this verse, and say we trust Him; and maybe even believe that He will make our paths straight.  But, we must not skip over the middle part . . . learning not to lean on our understanding.  So important!  And secondly, to seriously take time to acknowledge Him – in everything.  This is a powerful truth.  I encourage you to take time throughout the day to read over this verse many times, and do your best to incorporate its different elements into your life.

We’ve got to stick together!

Posted by Tony Haygood on April 4, 2013 in Daily Encouragement

Hebrews 10:24 & 25  (NASB)

“And let us consider how to stimulate one another to love and good deeds, not forsaking our own assembling together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another; and all the more, as you see the day drawing near.”

The truth is, we can do more together than apart!  Getting together at church is good for us, and good for others.  We should always take the mindset that we could help someone, pray for someone, or just be there for someone who really needs it.

Coming together at church is one of the most powerful ways we can build ourselves up, as well as help and encourage others in the process.

We need each other!  We’ve got to stick together!

The Funny Story I Read At Financially Fit For Christ On November 19, 2011

Posted by Tony Haygood on November 22, 2011 in Giving & Receiving, Prosperity & Debt

Since I was going to speak briefly on the subject of advertising, and how we are plastered by it everyday, I decided to listen to the radio one day and write down all the advertisers I heard.  Wow, it was more than I expected.  I then took most of the advertisers and made up a funny (fictional) story including many of them, just to show how much we actually take in every day.  Here you go:

“So, the other day, I was driving along in my Freeman Toyota that I picked up from AutoFlex Leasing, and I was listening to Hooked on Phonics with my children.  We were on the way to the mall to look at a Sleep Number Bed and pick up some Grecian Formula to wash that grey right out of my hair.  Once we got to the mall, I spotted the Ideal Feet store and decided to go take a look.  As it turns out, the owner of the store was a neighbor friend of mine out at 7-R Ranch, in fact, we had both just had Amazing Siding and New Spray installed on our homes right after Powerjack Foundation Repair fixed the cracks in our walls.  As we walked into the store, using our Dr. Scholls Gelling shoe inserts, he was finishing a Carbonite Online Backup of his computer, and had just started ordering Proflowers for his wife’s birthday, getting 18 assorted roses for the price of just 12.  I said hello to him and he said “Man, you look great after completing that Medifast Weight Loss program.”  I said “Thanks, the spray-on tan from Perfect Tan probably helps a little too!”  As we were talking, I realized what a vast improvement Lasic surgery from Boothe Eye Care & Laser Vision Center had made for me.  I could see everything so clearly!  Including the ad across the hallway for the upcoming event at The Bass Performance Hall.  I thought to myself, if I’m going to get tickets from Ticket Master for that, I should get going.  I excused myself and told my friend that our families could get together soon for dinner at Carrabba’s Italian Grill and discuss building that Mueller Steel Building we always wanted.  He thought we should just contact the General instead.  ”Either way, ” he said, I’ve already got the number to Lending Tree programed into my latest technology 4G, 3D, LCD Touchscreen Cell Phone with Unlimited Calls, Texting and Data!  I said “okay,” and we left.  I asked the kids if they thought we had enough time to swing by Ideal Image Laser Hair Removal and pick up a gift card for someone.  They said “Sure,” but then reminded me that it might make me late for my appointment at the Hair Club For Men.  I told them that I had cancelled that appointment, and decided not to add hair, but just wash the grey out of what I had left.  When we got back to the car, I used the Onstar Navigation System to get directions to Bass Hall, but was still sitting in the parking lot enjoying my Venti Vanilla Latte with an extra half shot – whip, only from Starbucks.  Just then, there was a tap on the window I had just replaced from Safe Auto.  It was another friend of mine, and he had an Excedrin Headache and was crying into a Kleenex Brand Tissue – the softer choice!  He said that his recent marriage through eHarmony.com didn’t work out so well.  He had spent more time shopping at the Bass Pro Shop than using the Oreck Vacuum at home, and she couldn’t handle it anymore.  He said he even asked the pros at Legal Zoom.com for advice, but they just told him to contact The Litigation Firm of Cordell & Cordell, because they were “a partner that men could count on.”  I told him I was sorry, but that I really had to go now.  After all, I still had to make it to Batteries Plus, and Bed, Bath & Beyond and then get home, install our new Bella Hardwood Flooring from Lumber Liquidators and plan the next vacation using Hotwire.com, all before dinner time.  I really needed to have a good meal and get some rest, because, after all, tomorrow is the beginning of Truck Month!”

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